tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.comments2023-10-07T19:38:18.589-04:00The Upbeat Dad!Rodrick Waltershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14558455294120234819noreply@blogger.comBlogger344125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-90337580947701568022020-01-24T04:22:30.470-05:002020-01-24T04:22:30.470-05:00What an extraordinary article! I have somebody in ...What an extraordinary article! I have somebody in my life that I am near and watching her experiencing the torment of separation was exceptionally excruciating for me and for all her family. I simply needed her torment to end, for her to be glad and her heart to be recuperated. I felt so fantastically vulnerable at the time. I felt distressed at the manner in which she communicated her resentful. I turned out to be much progressively stressed. I understand now in what manner or capacity quite a bit of that was about me and not about her. That for her it was only a characteristic path for her to express and process her torment. I wish that I could have done the pail practice with her. Perusing this has caused me to understand that however, I might need to 'help' and 'accomplish' something, that simply giving somebody space 'to feel' is making a difference.<a href="https://mensgroup.com/mens-support-groups/" rel="nofollow">men's support groups</a>Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08968722684915994498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-32142801044372513882020-01-08T02:37:31.694-05:002020-01-08T02:37:31.694-05:00i was just browsing along and came upon your blog....i was just browsing along and came upon your blog. just wanted to say good blog and this article really helped me. <a href="https://stumblethis.net/" rel="nofollow">성인용품</a>rthwerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07634812053107920563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-14474639275216678142019-09-29T10:30:57.843-04:002019-09-29T10:30:57.843-04:00This is my first t e i visit here. I found so many...This is my first t e i visit here. I found so many interesting stuff in your blog especially its discussion. From the tons of comments on your articles, I guess I am not the only one having all the enjoyment here! keep up the good work<br /><a href="https://krogerexperiencee.com/" rel="nofollow">Kroger experience</a>Kroger experiencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08026291203489607601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-65763866887439817692018-07-10T14:35:06.410-04:002018-07-10T14:35:06.410-04:00Sometimes we might forget this because we think un... Sometimes we might forget this because we think unity is the product of conformity. Unity is the product of granting and allowing equality to uniqueness and diversity <a href="https://www.lovespanishfly.com/sex-stories/lots-of-fun-in-our-small-apartment/" rel="nofollow">read here</a><br />Stefana Pottihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09737285690772894127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-40252264321690659002018-07-10T12:05:30.036-04:002018-07-10T12:05:30.036-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Rifat Ansarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08807558891346928498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-5040645154910229432018-07-04T06:30:18.783-04:002018-07-04T06:30:18.783-04:00If you have read any of my previous articles you w...If you have read any of my previous articles you will know that I am a great believer in spending quality time together. Well you also need to be able to spend time apart. <a href="https://www.relationshipstartersblog.com/what-to-talk-about-with-a-girl/" rel="nofollow">topics to talk about with girls</a><br />john smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13834394757533305449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-47456448455750085372018-06-21T18:18:18.021-04:002018-06-21T18:18:18.021-04:00The insightful ones won't let their specialize... The insightful ones won't let their specialized curriculum educators go, or dispose of their classrooms.<a href="https://www.eztalks.com/online-education/free-virtual-classroom-software.html" rel="nofollow">best free virtual classroom software</a><br />Miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03337558064824391603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-57202905182433558292018-06-19T13:16:43.014-04:002018-06-19T13:16:43.014-04:00The first thing you will want to do when you are i...The first thing you will want to do when you are in need of a lawyer is remember your Rights,<a href="https://davidgenis.ca/" rel="nofollow">david genis</a> will tell you about all the rights..Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00695550838039477295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-41415286503667413092018-06-18T02:35:52.291-04:002018-06-18T02:35:52.291-04:00Hi Rodrick,
Parenthood requires much time and take...Hi Rodrick,<br />Parenthood requires much time and takes a lot of efforts to become productive and successful. It's just a matter of perception, cause many parents just don't see that they need to contribute to the development of the relationships with kids. They don't consider parenting as a process that should be also thought about and guided. Not just a chaotic flow. Consider resources from <a href="http://writemypersonalstatement.net/" rel="nofollow">personal statement writers</a> on Parenting.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12493219610469549648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-53705340692834270202018-06-14T01:02:23.653-04:002018-06-14T01:02:23.653-04:00Yes, sadly there are deadbeat mothers. There are m...Yes, sadly there are deadbeat mothers. There are mothers who put their interests first by exposing their child(ren) to the wrong kind of people: Violent. The children witness horrific incidences all because the mother is too weak to see the error of her ways. I've seen this many times in the family law proceedings I helped with at a law office. I was support staff. The mother is more needy than her children and their safety is risked because she thinks she needs this violent man, drugs, drinking in her life. Not good for anyone. Very damaging. Unless she gets well, what do you do? You keep the children safe by putting them into the care of those who are decent. This is why many grandparents have custody of their grandchildren. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064561959974074185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-86011443107174901332018-06-14T00:58:29.841-04:002018-06-14T00:58:29.841-04:00I understand what you are experiencing. You can ta...I understand what you are experiencing. You can take action to collect the late child support. You can file a claim with the District Attorney's child support division. They will do the leg work to secure the funds that your child needs. Also, they will garnish any IRS refunds. Do it for your child. Yes, it is very heartbreaking to see how child suffer from neglect of a parent. My church brought a man to me that wanted to be my son's Big Brother. The man was a good one who had a wife and two grown children. His background is spotless and my son benefitted from his attention. It isn't the same as a father but it was a decent male who showed concern and who my son could have fun with. My daughter too longed for male attention (father). It is very hard to deal with these situations. My son grew angry and I had wee problems with him as a teen. Nothing horrendous but it wasn't what I wanted for him. He did find his way and he is a dad now. He adopted his wife's daughter and they have a son. My girl is a mother of three and married to a gem of a guy. A man who always wanted to be a father and has taken a leave of absence to be home with each baby! There are good men out there. We just have to be more discerning. I did garnish my children's father's wages and I did eventually ask him to sign off his rights. It came to that. My kids grew up and did visit their dad. They are in contact with all their siblings and that was my hope all along. They have a wonderful relationship with all their brothers & sisters. I encouraged my children to seek him out and they did. They know who he is and aren't fooled by him or his wife. They see him for who he is. My daughter though is distant with him as she will not allow him to hurt her again. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064561959974074185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-80609882847538377362018-06-14T00:49:19.989-04:002018-06-14T00:49:19.989-04:00What an excellent reply and I agree with you. Than...What an excellent reply and I agree with you. Thanks for posting. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064561959974074185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-65043244064956892842018-06-14T00:32:24.301-04:002018-06-14T00:32:24.301-04:00I regret what happened to you. It is heart-breakin...I regret what happened to you. It is heart-breaking. I don't think you'll be able to understand why your mom did that. It is a lesson I learned through life too. Trying to understand why will take up your life. Best to just move on and plan what you are going to do with your life. You have one and you can make it good with the people you've chosen to be in your close circle. Some people can just move on and rebuild their life without looking back. Me--I couldn't do that to my children. It isn't as uncommon as you'd think. I worked for a family law attorney and it was kind of healing for me to see what people do and that I am not the only one whose parents divorced. Mine divorced when I was age 8. We had to leave a foreign country by ship to return to the USA. I can recall vividly laying on the top bunk in the ship's cabin thinking, "I am the most unlovable child because I cannot even keep my parents together." Children have no reasoning skills at all and I saw that too with my own children when I witnessed their loss. I divorced when my first born was age 2, and I was pregnant with my second. He betrayed me. I wasn't going to live 13 years with a philanderer like my mom did. So I moved on. He married his concubine and she encouraged him to abandon his children. Children do not understand this at all. They blame themselves. They lose their worth all because a father or the absent parent will not contact them. At Christmas time my children had many gifts from our big, big family. But they both said to me, 'I know who doesn't love me.' It was their father. They were depressed on Christmas because nothing from dad. I was incensed with their dad and I wrote one last letter to him explaining if he doesn't contact them then I will no longer be writing and sending pics etc. I kept sending him photos of them as if he cared. I don't know. I had a garnishment on his wages and the money stopped when he was let go. He relocated and there was no child support. When he was served, he petitioned the court for visitation--the exact visitation that he had and never exercised! So I knew his game and I asked my attorney to just ask him to sign off his rights. I no longer wanted to have to do this and I knew I would take care of my children. He sent a letter indicating how hard it was for him to do this. I wish the court would let my children read that letter but it is confidential. So with that, he was gone and had no more responsibility. I never spoke an ill word about their father. They are part of him and putting down the spouse only hurts the children. I know because my mom did it all the time. I look like my dad and so putting him down puts me down. I told my children to look for him when they are 18 yrs old and visit him. Each of them did. My daughter lived with him until his wife got angry with her and put her on the street. (I really dislike that adulterous whore). Then my son went to see him and he lasted 30 days and left on his own accord. They don't like him and his wife is very controlling. She will not allow the stepchildren to have direct contact with him. And he lets her have the control. There are seven children altogether since he married three times. In my mind I refer to him as The Pollinator. They use to do drugs and drink but now they are Mormons. She wants to act like she is the Matriarch of these seven people. Mine aren't buying it. She is a cold, cruel woman. So adults behaving in their own interest can be very hurtful to developing children. Children's brains are developing as soon as they are born and this kind of stress hampers optimal growth. I wish you well and I regret you are part of this horrible experience. Hugs. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064561959974074185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-18555678381564393372018-06-13T23:51:26.453-04:002018-06-13T23:51:26.453-04:00Sounds like a cop out to me. The father is the pro...Sounds like a cop out to me. The father is the provider. Yes, some moms take advantage but it does not give the right for father to disappear. Not accepting this scenario. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064561959974074185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219803351075030577.post-8121391641962371182018-04-30T05:50:21.795-04:002018-04-30T05:50:21.795-04:00Thanks for the article. Fantastic written articles...Thanks for the article. 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